Hope in Hell
You are NOT alone. We believe you. This is why.
There IS hope in hell.
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You are not alone.
Whether you are concerned about your own safety, security, and sanity
or are concerned for someone you care about,
you are not alone.
we BELIEVE YOU. we CARE. we CAN HELP.
Domestic Abuse & Intimate Partner Abuse is very real.
It happens in numerous ways, including mental, physical, financial, and more.
It has been declared an EPIDEMIC in many regions across Canada.
Many females are afraid to confide in anyone; afraid to ask for help; afraid to get out.
Most feel ashamed that they are in a situation like this.
They are trying to keep the peace, keep it together, cope - survive.
One of the bravest things you can do is use your voice.
When you share your experiences, your story - you make a difference.
You will find support to make changes that can literally save your life & your sanity.
You will bring awareness & compassion to the world so others will be more readily helped when they reach out for it.
You will create connections with many others for a village of understanding, support, and courage.
YOU MATTER. YOUR STORY MATTERS.
You CAN BE THE CHANGE for yourself & for others.
Are you looking for a community of other women like you who have been through, are going through, or would like to support someone dealing with an abusive situation?
I’ve created an online support group as a place where you can make connections and find others who have been there or are still experiencing domestic abuse and violence. Others who are also looking for encouragement and support. You can share where you are in your journey and where you'd like to go. We all work together to support each other from a very understanding and safe place.
You can join these online meetings from the comfort, safety, and privacy of wherever you want to join.
There is no cost to attend, and it's done over zoom. You're more than welcome to check it out and join us to see what it's all about.
Hopefully you will find connections with others who can help you through this. Here is the link for the “Hope in Hell” Online Women’s Support Group on Meetup.
We look forward to getting to know you and together find “Hope in Hell”.
Do you need help right now?
Here are some links:
The Today Centre (Edmonton)
Women on Wings (Calgary)
Women's Shelters (Alberta)
Women's Shelters (Canada)
List of Global Resources
You are NOT ALONE! There are people who care & want to help.
I also have a new PODCAST with a “Hope in Hell” series where you can meet the wonderful people making a difference, meet brave people who have been there, and learn more about how we can all be part of the change.
There is Hope in Hell
My mission is to bring awareness to the abuse that exists in so many domestic and intimate partner situations.
When there is awareness, there is opportunity. Opportunity to free females from the guilt, shame, and fear that traps them in unsafe & unhealthy situations and impacts their safety, their choices, their healing, and their future.
When they hear your story, they will know you are part of a community that believes them, accepts them, and will support them in getting the help they need to heal & thrive.
Please consider adding your story to this collection. You don’t have to be a professional writer. You can remain anonymous. There are no fees to take part. And all proceeds will be donated to organizations who help & support women.
Be my Guest!
Blog on my blog.
If putting your whole story out for public view is too overwhelming & scary right now, why not try sharing it in small pieces.
If you’re not already familiar with the broad range of topics I love to share, then check it out now. Most are quick reads to entertain, encourage & inspire (with the odd rant & recipe thrown in to mix it up).
Then start jotting down some of your own thoughts and send them my way. Let’s start putting some strength into your voice.
AND! when you’re ready to start your own blog, I can help you do that too ;)
Let’s connect
Find more resources here:
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Be Empowered Alberta (includes various links to resource websites in the tri-region, as well as Sagesse as well as a link to register for updates on Finding Our Voices 6-week program.
Safe Horizon Be Empowered
”Shelter Movers” - Elsa Perry
The Today Centre (Edmonton)
Women on Wings (Calgary)
Sagesse (Calgary & Alberta)
Women's Shelters (Alberta)
Women's Shelters (Canada)
Alberta Courts – Domestic Abuse
Abuse & Law in Alberta - Law Central (Alberta)
Victim Support - Edmonton Police Service (EPS)
About Family Violence - Gov’t of Canada
Sagesse Real Talk / Workshops - tools for understanding & supporting
Help from Donna James: